In 1870-72, John Marius Wilson's Imperial Gazetteer of England and Wales described Frilsham like this:
FRILSHAM, a parish in Bradfield district, Berks; on an affluent of the river Thames, 4½ miles N by -E of Thatcham r. station, and 6 SSE of East Ilsley. - Post town, Yattendon, under Newbury. Acres, 989. Real property, £1, 344. Pop., 183. Houses, 39. The property is divided among a few. The living is a rectory in the diocese of Oxford. Value, £131. Patron, Robert Floyd, Esq. The church is old but good; and there are charities £17.
GB Historical GIS / University of Portsmouth, History of Frilsham in West Berkshire | Map and description, A Vision of Britain through Time.
Date accessed: 29th April 2017
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